14 September 2009

My not so much baby bump...

I see a lot of people are pregnant and to be quite honest, I'm a tad bit jealous. Only a tad bit but still the jealousy is there. I know that isn't the best thing for Cameron and I right now, not to mention IMPOSSIBLE, but still every time I hear someone talk about their due date, their pregnancy, or anything to do with babies my heart twinges just a little.

Anyone else have this fever and any ideas of how to get past it since Cameron and I have discussed it and will NOT be trying for quite sometime....Any suggestions at all would be great, unless of course it's a suggestion for me to watch someones 2 year old. That will not be happening! :)

3 comments:

Amber said...

I get what you are talking about! Seeing babies and the talk about babies really makes me want one, but we need to wait until I finish school and find a good job with my degree. Which will probably be another 2-3 years!

Just think of it this way, if you tried to have a baby now, knowing you should wait, it would be more of a selfish thing to do than thinking of the baby. You are thinking about what is best for the baby which means you are going to be a great momma one day. One day it will be happen and you will be glad you waited until a better time! That's what I'm going with anyway & it helps me! :)

Jessica said...

Y'all are both smart girls. Amber, you're totally right - you need to wait until it will be good for the baby. The time will come for both. I promise! And probably WAY sooner than you can imagine. 2-3 years may seem like a while, but dang does time fly.

Everyone just kept telling me to enjoy being with Nate because you can't send a baby back! Strangely, that doesn't help. When you want one, you want one. Forcing yourself to continue taking birth control and just have fun practicing is your best bet! haha :)

Anonymous said...

I know how bad it sucks. I had baby fever forever before I got pregnant with Everett. Then after I had him, I had it WORSE! I still get jealous when I see other pregnant women and see how cute they are, but I know that its not the time for us right now. Enjoy being husband and wife first... I wish we had done that.